I have been through similiar experiences as have most of you spending literally years explaining what is up with our loved ones. Care givers who are new to the disease just don't have the info necessary, nor do police, emts, etc.
I love the pamphlet idea and I think it would work well in many situations but in a crises who will refer to the pamphlet?
'Ideally' if a major movie were to be made about a real life family who has experienced true situations with real struggles, I'm talking blockbuster qualities and super stars it would get to more people. How do you make that happen?
Remember Lorenzo's Oil? In order to get it you have to see it.
I had a recent situation with a loved one who I took to a public event and had a distant relative accompany us.
Afterwards the relative said to me, "There is 'no way' to explain what it is like to go thru a day with a PHD unless you live it."
The ups and downs, complications involved and the need to always to anticpate and be on the lookout for possible trouble which might arise. Not just physical limitations but psychological, emotional limitations compiled on the physical. To take it on is monumental.
If stability in emotions can be regulated, our phds need to interact with others as much as possible. The humanity of situations can be at times very comical and yet so very sad. It is universal and we all know that in our lives "Reality is stranger than fiction." There is a real story here.
Maybe our phds look and act very strange at times and are reguarded as different to others but we know that they have the same desires feelings and wants as all.
It sounds like a pipe dream but it would work. We want and need others to understand and even help when possible.