Living Positive

Staying Sane

Staying sane while living with Huntington's and dealing with affected family members can he a huge challenge for HD families. We are all set to different levels of sanity so some of us have more to spare then others do. I have always found it funny that it is the insane people who believe themselves to be completely sane but it is the sane people who actually question their sanity. So if you wonder if you ARE crazy it is actually proof that you are not. Crazy but true.

Donating Blood With The HD Gene

Will giving blood

It’s fine to give blood when you’ve tested positive for the HD gene. I was a regular donor when I found out I had it and one of the first things I did was to check to see if I could still give. At the time I was a blood drive sponsor for a North Carolina agency and had access to the full Red Cross eligibility manual. It said, “… donors with the Huntington’s Disease gene are acceptable as long as any involuntary movements will not affect the donation process”.

When It’s Time To Quit

I’ve written before about finding excuses not to take proactive steps to fight the Huntington’s Disease demons. I’ll try to never quit that battle. However, there are some times when you have to stop doing something, like driving, to insure your safety and that of everyone else on the road. That’s a very difficult thing to do, since it means losing your freedom and admitting that the disease has gotten the better of you

 

Perspective

Perspective is the ultimate way to be able to put the things that happen in life into proper focus. How we view things has everything to do with how big a deal we make of some things. There are always three choices in any given situation: Give up, give in or give it all you've got. Time is going extremely fast and in just two days from now, tomorrow will already be yesterday.

I had been a Home Support worker for years before I was diagnosed with HD. This would prove to be a huge benefit to me and helped me to put my HD in perspective.

Finding An Excuse to Quit

This past Saturday I ran my annual 50 mile race at the Umstead 100 Mile Endurance Run in my hometown of Raleigh, NC.  I have finished the 100 five times and the optional 50 miler 9 times, including this year.  I’m also on the Race Committee and handle registration and awards.

A Lucky Falling Out of Love Story for Valentines Day

I know when we fell in love.  She was dating my roommate in prep school. Yes, I went to a snotty boy’s boarding school in New England.  I wasn’t from a wealthy family, but had a working scholarship.  I worked in the kitchen every day to earn my way through. She was from an old family and went to a snotty private girl’s school.  I’m not sure how it happened – it just did.  I was kind of a jock – co-captain of the hockey team and a starting attackman on the lacrosse team. Maybe that attracted her.  She was smart and physically attractive.

How to Start a Walking Program

We all know that exercise is beneficial for everyone.  It’s particularly important for people with, or at-risk for HD.  A New Year’s resolution made and kept will make you look and feel better.  Do you have to go to a gym 6 days a week and sweat bullets to get in shape?  NO!!!  Do you have to run marathons?  NO!!!  Do you have to spend a fortune on fancy equipment?  NO!!!

False Memories

Delusions can be a big part of Huntingtons with some people.  I have a sister who is completely delusional.  It really keeps us on our toes to try to keep up with all the different ideas she comes up with.  Trying to reason all the time with someone who has an altered grasp of reality and a 5 second memory span is a full time dance/job.  She keeps coming up with these brilliant ideas but because she does not see her disability at all she feels she is capable of everything and everything.

Needing an Advocate

The time will come for each and everyone of us when we will need someone else to do our talking for us. A few months ago there was something that happened that made it clear I had gone from needing a part time advocate to a full time advocate. I relocated again last winter and had to go through the process of getting a new dentist and family doctor. I have run into problems in the past with dentists as they do not understand that I have to be medicated for them to be able to work on me.

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