Barb, I appreciate your input. It is difficult to describe the context of the situation in writing. His actions, prior to the conversation, clearly indicated that he wanted to be more than friends. I think, although not 100% positive, that talking about our relationship solidified the reality that we were more than friends. He expressed to me that he had feelings toward me that went beyond friendship. He seemed petrified with the possibility that he could possibly go through the same situation again. However, I am a different person with different and clear expectations of what our reality would be. In spite of this, I am willing to go the distance. I am divorced as well for 10 years. It is rare that you find a person with whom you have a strong emotional connection. I have not felt this way since my former husband. We have had very similar experiences, have the same values, the same interests, same age group, and we feel safe with one another. I do not have HD or family members with the disease. I have had much experience with illness as my immediate family has a hereditary disease that has affected aunts, siblings, grandparents, me, and my son.I was hoping to understand more deeply on another level his fears about going forward given past relationships and how low libido affects marriages and relationships from a male perspective. Being female with side effects from current medications and peri menopausal , I am used to having a low libido. It seems to impede men significantly more than women. I was wondering if anyone else had been through something similar and, if so, would be willing to share. The conversation regarding the direction of our relationship needed to be discussed as it was becoming very emotionally painful to stay at that level. I am a mature adult and I am moving forward. I fully respect his needs and wants. We have talked about boundaries and decided to decrease our contact with each other by a great degree. I am grieving the loss of our closeness and what could have been. In doing so, I am trying to process my thoughts and emotions. If some out there can relate and could share, I would appreciate it very much. Barb, thank you for you quick and honest response. I appreciate it. Wishing everyone in this forum a wonderful New Year.